GENDER IS A BINARY (NOT A SPECTRUM). PERIOD.

Agenderism is fiction (not fact!). Gender is a binary. If your psychologist is telling you that gender is a spectrum, please keep in mind that they are not legally certified to make that decision. A biologist would be the appropriate one to talk to about this subject.

"The gender binary, also referred to as gender binarism (sometimes shortened to just binarism), is the classification of sex and gender into two distinct, opposite and disconnected forms of masculine and feminine. It is one general type of a gender system."

There are males, there are females, and there are intersex people, but being intersex is actually more of a bodily disorder than an actual gender. There are XX and XY chromosomes. Biology does support the fact that gender is nothing but a solid two-option binary. Please get used to it. Thank you.

To quote Rebecca Riley-Cooper (although she is a "radical feminist", and this is not an endorsement of her and / or of her work[s]): "If gender is a spectrum, not a binary, then everyone is “non-binary”."

If everyone is "non-binary", then there is no "binary". And that, in and / or of itself, creates a rather crazy, cyclic, meta dilemma. How could that possibly make any form of sense in any logical realm of this world?

That's like saying:

"Your life must be pretty boring if the entire word 'life' can fit into just one word, to be honest."

"Your life must be pretty boring if your entire life can fit into just one year, to be honest."

"Your life must be pretty boring if your entire sexuality can go just one way, to be honest."

I could probably come up with some other stupid stuff, but let's just save that stuff for later. Okay?